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Week 23: SELF X-RAY & 3 Key Questions
QUESTION
Are you keeping your huddle time simple, focused, and effective?
STORY
Three buddies who huddled weekly drifted into just banter and sports. Then one guy said, “Let’s go back to asking the 3 questions.” The clarity brought depth back. Real sharing returned—and so did growth.
EXAMINE SELF
Have I stuck to the purpose of my core friendships when we huddle, or let ourselves drift from going deep?
SCRIPTURE
“Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt…” — Colossians 4:6
QUOTE
“Simple structure fuels deeper connection.” – Jeff Kemp
TIP
Re-center around the 3 questions. Simple. Not Complex.
- What is the most important thing you need to talk about today?
- What is the most important thing I can pray for you?
- What is Father God saying to you through His word lately?
PRAY, CONFESS & REPENT
Lord, I confess I’ve let talking about stuff that doesn’t matter much replace intentional connection. Help me return to what brings deep connection.
COACHING
Repeating great questions isn’t boring—it’s how we go further and embed them internally. Use the 3 questions to shape your weekly time with core friends.
ACTION STEP
Have each friend assess themselves with the SELF X-RAY tool below to inform what’s most important to discuss. Then use or reintroduce the 3 questions when you huddle.
COMMITMENT
I will help my huddling friends stay centered on the simple pattern of questions that bring depth.
HABIT
Post the 3 questions in your notes or phone. Use them weekly.
TALK & PRAY WITH FRIENDS
Chat with your core friends about whether answering any of these questions triggers some anxiety.
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