Friendship is a treasure. Unfortunately, for many of us, it’s a hidden treasure, because we’ve invested so little in it. So little time. So little of our effort. Like everything meaningful, the Bible offers wisdom on men’s fellowship, showing us how to bring it into our own lives and enjoy its life-changing effects.
Here are some of the key Bible verses about men’s fellowship in the Bible.
What Does the Bible Say About Christian Men’s Fellowship?
“I have called you friends because all things, whatsoever I have heard of my Father, I have made known to you” – John 5:15
I love how this scripture gives us a glimpse into the daily lives of the 12 disciples. It’s like Jesus saying, “You know how I’ve been calling you all friends?” How cool is that? And the proof of friendship he gives is the knowledge of God that He’s passed down to the Father. It’s the perfect blueprint for the men’s fellowship, even in this modern age: a group of men coming around Jesus to learn about the Father.
“For where two or three gather in my name, there am I with them” – Matthew 18:20
It’s important to recognize Jesus’ presence at your men’s gatherings. He’s central to everything we do; when we gather in His name, He becomes the center of our time together. And spending quality time as a group with Jesus helps us become more like Him.
“And let us consider how we may spur one another toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another” – Hebrews 10:24-25
Gathering together can’t be something we do infrequently as a men’s fellowship. The Bible calls us to be consistent, to meet together often so that we can make a real impact on each other’s lives with encouragement.
“You are my friends if you do what I command” – John 15:14
Have you ever had a friend challenge you to be better? To do what you need to do? I sure have, on the field as a quarterback and in life. Every friendship has expectations, and our friendship with Jesus is no different. Jesus’ expectation for us to obey God’s will. That doesn’t mean we order each other around. Instead, that means uphold ourselves and each other, without judgment, to the commandments of God.
“Therefore confess your sins to each other and pay for each other so that you may be healed.” – James 5:16
It’s not easy for guys to admit fault or show weakness, but that’s what God wants us to do. But instead harboring and hiding our insecurities, only letting them grow, confessing our sins in a safe space with a group of guys who have your back will bring them out into the light where they can be confronted. It’s not just about holding each other accountable either. Our prayers, the Bible says, will help our brothers heal.
“Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves” – Romans 12:10
Guys aren’t always the best at showing love for each other, but God requires devotion. When was the last time you proved your devotion to a friend? Jesus proved His again and again, always putting his disciples first. Remember how He, the son of God, washed their feet on the last night before His death.
“Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you” – Colossians 3:13
It’s not always easy to forgive but God asks us to remember that He has forgiven all of our sins through the sacrifice of His son, Jesus. Conflict is inevitable, but fellowship, we must find reconciliation and see it as an opportunity for us to overcome a challenge, which only makes our bonds stronger.
I hope these verses remind you of the importance of our Biblical brotherhood and inspire you with the spiritual growth that’s possible through fellowship. As we strive to follow God’s Word and become more like Jesus, we can create powerful friendships rooted in faith.
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