One of the greatest difficulties of modern life is how easy everything is. I certainly don’t want anything to actually get harder for me or you, but it’s easy to go through our days without facing any dangers or hardships. When something does come up, whether it’s sickness, grief, or some challenging situation, it stops us in our tracks. That’s why one of the most important things you can do, whether you’re currently facing a struggle or not, is to focus on praying for strength in Christ.

Leaning on God During Trials

Here are three big ideas to start your prayers for strength.

Follow Jesus’ example

There is so much wisdom in the Bible, but I always like to start with what Jesus did. He faced more danger, difficulty and temptation than anyone—constantly under siege from the devil, the Pharisees and the Roman authorities. What did He model for us to do when praying for strength? Did He show us how a resolute man puts everything on His shoulders and faces it alone and silently?

No, the exact opposite! Jesus asked God, “Father, if you are willing, take this cup from me; yet not my will, but yours be done” (Luke 22:42).

In our culture, I can imagine an authority figure barking orders to finish the job or he might question the resolve, commitment or strength of the person looking for help. Maybe that’s why so many of us are slow to admit we need help.

But see how God responded to Jesus’ plea: “An angel from heaven appeared to him and strengthened him.”

If you’re in need, tell God through prayer and He will strengthen you, too.

Show your weakness

You might be thinking, “It’s one thing to admit when you need help, but you want me to do what?”

In 2nd Corinthians 12:9-10, Paul relates that God told him “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” All the difficulties of life only highlight the power and grace of God.

Then, Paul tells us how we should act: “Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me. That is why, for Christ’s sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong.”

It’s easy to understand, but harder to live out. Pray to God that He can make this verse real for you and give you His power to carry on.  

Understand Who is in control

Hardships, struggles and spiritual battles can really highlight that we’re really not in control…ever. We might think we are. But in the good times and the bad, God is.

Paul goes on to say in Philippians 4:11-13, “I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do all this through him who gives me strength.”

This verse shows us that Paul wasn’t just content when he had what most of us would call the essentials. By relying solely on God, he learned to be fulfilled when he was in desperate physical need. He turned to God praying for strength and rested in Him.

Pray to God and surrender control, so He can fill you with strength.

Finding Courage in Prayer

Prayer can be done in many ways, at any place, in any part of the day. It’s the main way we connect with God. When I feel like I need strength from God, I like to ask Him for it and listen for His voice.

You can meditate on Psalm 119:28: “My soul is weary with sorrow; strengthen me according to your word.” It’s like asking God to remind you of everything He’s revealed to us in the Bible, and all the goodness He’s shown us in our lives.  

Here are just a few of the promises that God makes to us:

  1. Exodus 15:1-4: God is our strength and our defense. “Stand firm and you will see the deliverance the Lord will bring you today (Exodus 14:13).
  2. Psalm 46:1-3: God is “our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble,” no matter what is happening around us.
  3. Nehemiah 8:10: The joy of the Lord is our strength.
  4. Isaiah 40:29-30: When we’re feeling physically or emotionally drained, turn to God. He renews our strength and gives us His power to “run and not grow weary.”
  5. Philippians 4:6: Strengthen your faith through prayer by presenting your requests to God—in every situation.

Remember, praying for strength in Christ is a powerful opportunity to glorify God and draw closer to Him.

 

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Fear has devastating effects on our lives. It affects our memory, brain processing and our mental and physical health. More importantly, it keeps us from living in the faith and power of God. Everyone deals with fear. I know I have, whether it was the fear of a linebacker coming off the blindside, or the fear of my mess being known to others or the fear of not measuring up and losing the approval of others. As humans, we’re imperfect, so we’ll never fully live without fear. But the Bible reveals God’s assurances and tells us how to rely on Him to triumph over fear. 

Here are three big ways the Bible teaches us to address fear. 

Finding Peace in God’s Promises

God’s Word is filled with promises of His care and faithfulness. He gives us peace in moments of fear. As Isaiah 41:10 says, “So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” 

God isn’t just waiting around, watching us in heaven. He’s with us. His presence is constant, even in difficult times when it feels like He’s far off. Just remembering this fact can help calm our fears and steady us through challenges and spiritual battles. God’s not just there, either, He’s actively guiding us. “Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil, for you are with me,” Psalm 23:4 reminds us. “Your rod and your staff, they comfort me.” The rod and the staff refer to God shepherding us: a rod to defend us from danger and a staff to guide us to better things.

Meditating on verses like these can help you find peace from fear. When I’m faced with uncertainty, I like to come to God, open and listening, letting Him direct me to the verses that He knows I need to let resonate within me. His presence and the Bible’s wisdom give me assurances. Sometimes, my friends offer advice and reminders about God’s character—reach out to your friends in difficult times. A good friend will listen and reassure you of God’s promises.

Overcoming fear through faith

Jesus calls us to live by faith and not by sight. When we experience moments of fear, it’s a reminder to put our faith in God even more. Remember when Jesus questioned His disciples’ fear during the storm on the boat, asking “Why are you so afraid? Do you still have no faith?” He’s telling them, If you’re my follower and you believe that I am God, then why would you worry about a storm? That applies to us, too, of course. If we believe that God controls everything, then why should we be afraid? 

But by building faith through prayer, studying His Word and reflecting on His past faithfulness, we can let God transform our fear into confidence in Him.

Trusting God in uncertain times

Fear is often amplified by uncertainty, whether it’s about the future, health, finances or relationships. But the Bible calls believers to trust God even when they cannot see the outcome. Proverbs 3:5-6 tells us, Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.”

Matthew 6:34 adds practical wisdom: “Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.” By focusing on God’s daily provision rather than future concerns, believers can release the burden of fear and rest in His care.

The Bible addresses our fear with powerful truths about God’s nature. God promises to be with us, giving us peace. On the other hand, He reminds us to let our faith and trust in Him overcome fear and alleviate our anxiety in uncertain times. Give your fear to the all-powerful, loving God, so He can transform them into steadfast faith and confidence.

 

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Being a father comes with its challenges, responsibilities, and joys. But being a Christian father carries an even deeper calling: to reflect God’s love, provide spiritual leadership, and guide your family in faith. What does this look like in practice, and how can fathers embrace this role with humility and purpose?

A Christian Father Leads Spiritually

The role of a Christian father begins with spiritual leadership. This means setting the tone for your family’s faith by prioritizing your relationship with God. In Deuteronomy 6:6-7, God commands, “Impress [my commandments] on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.”

Spiritual leadership isn’t about being perfect—it’s about being intentional. A Christian father models prayer, Bible study, and reliance on God’s wisdom in decision-making. When your children see you prioritizing God in your life, they are more likely to follow suit.

A Christian Father Reflects God’s Love

One of the most important aspects of fatherhood is demonstrating unconditional love. Just as God loves His children, you’re called to show patience, kindness, and forgiveness. Colossians 3:21 advises, “Fathers, do not embitter your children, or they will become discouraged.”

Reflecting God’s love doesn’t mean being permissive. It means balancing discipline with grace, guiding your children with a firm but loving hand. When children know they are loved unconditionally, they feel secure and valued, allowing their faith to flourish.

A Christian Father Invests in His Children

Time is one of the greatest gifts a father can give his children. Being a Christian father means making intentional efforts to be present—physically, emotionally, and spiritually. This might include family devotions, one-on-one conversations about faith, or simply sharing in activities that build trust and connection.

Proverbs 22:6 reminds us, “Start children off on the way they should go, and even when they are old, they will not turn from it.” Investing in your children’s spiritual growth not only strengthens their faith but also creates a legacy of godliness that will influence future generations.

A Christian Father Relies on God’s Strength

Fatherhood isn’t always easy. There will be moments of doubt, frustration, and exhaustion. But Christian fathers are not expected to carry these burdens alone. Relying on God’s strength through prayer and faith is essential for navigating the challenges of raising a family.

Philippians 4:13 reminds us, “I can do all this through Him who gives me strength.” When fathers turn to God for guidance and encouragement, they find the courage to lead their families with love and resilience.

Being a Christian father is about more than providing for your family—it’s about reflecting God’s love, leading spiritually, and creating a legacy of faith. It’s a journey that requires humility, patience, and a daily commitment to grow closer to God and your family.

 

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A Christian family is more than shared bloodlines—it’s a home built on faith, love, and obedience to God’s Word. At its core, a Christian family keeps Christ at the center, creating a foundation for lasting unity and purpose. But what does this look like in practice, and how can families intentionally grow in their faith together?

Foundation of a Christian Family

1. Christ-Centered Living

In a Christian family, everything revolves around their relationship with Jesus. Daily prayer, studying scripture, and worshiping together anchor their faith. As Joshua 24:15 declares, “As for me and my household, we will serve the Lord.” A life rooted in faith naturally strengthens the bonds within the family.

Christ-centered living doesn’t just mean attending church or saying grace before meals—it’s about weaving faith into the fabric of everyday life. This can involve discussing God’s Word in casual conversations, encouraging family members to pray for one another, and seeking God’s guidance in decision-making. Keeping Christ at the center ensures that the family’s purpose and direction remain aligned with His will.

2. Love and Forgiveness

Christian families reflect the unconditional love of Christ by practicing grace and forgiveness. Colossians 3:13 teaches, “Forgive anyone who offends you. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others.” Forgiveness is not always easy, but it’s essential for maintaining healthy relationships within the home.

When mistakes or misunderstandings occur, families can demonstrate God’s love by extending compassion and seeking reconciliation. This not only strengthens the family bond but also serves as a powerful example of Christ’s love to the world. Forgiveness doesn’t erase the pain, but it allows healing and growth to take place, transforming relationships into reflections of God’s grace.

3. Faith Passed Down Generations

Parents in a Christian family are called to pass their faith to the next generation. Deuteronomy 6:7 reminds us to teach God’s Word daily: “Talk about [His commandments] when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.” This commandment highlights the importance of incorporating faith into every aspect of daily life.

Passing down faith involves more than teaching Bible stories or bringing children to Sunday school. It’s about modeling what it means to live a Christ-centered life. Parents should demonstrate humility, patience, and love, showing their children how to navigate challenges with God’s guidance. By doing this, parents lay a foundation for their children’s spiritual growth, equipping them to face life’s trials with faith and confidence.

Characteristics of a Christian Family

A Christian family stands out in the way its members interact and care for one another. Here are some defining characteristics that set Christian families apart:

  • Strong Marital Bond: The relationship between husband and wife is the cornerstone of a Christian family. This bond reflects the union between Christ and the Church (Ephesians 5:25-28). A strong, God-centered marriage provides a stable foundation for children and sets an example of love and respect.
  • Intentional Parenting: Christian parents actively guide their children spiritually, helping them build their own relationship with God. This involves teaching, nurturing, and modeling Christ-like behavior. Intentional parenting goes beyond discipline—it’s about creating an environment where faith can flourish.
  • Service to Others: Christian families extend their love outward, serving their communities and spreading Christ’s message through acts of kindness and generosity. Whether it’s volunteering, donating, or simply helping a neighbor in need, these acts reinforce the family’s commitment to living out their faith.

A Christian family is a daily commitment to love, serve, and grow together in Christ. It’s not about perfection but about progress—striving to reflect God’s love in every interaction. As you nurture your family’s faith, you create a legacy that will impact future generations.

 

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The Bible is the story of God creating humanity in His image, giving them free will, and then bringing them closer to Him with His perfect way and the sacrifice of His Son. It is the greatest concentration of wisdom in the Bible, a collection inspired by God Himself over generations. So, of course, it also makes profound statements about the nature of wisdom.

4 Key Illustrations of Wisdom in the Bible

1. Reverence for God is the foundation of wisdom

In the Bible, wisdom begins with a serious focus on your relationship with God. As Proverbs 9:10 says, “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom, and knowledge of the Holy One is understanding.” Fear does not mean dread, but respect, awe, reverence and submission to God. If you understand this and base everything around God, you have set the foundation for living a life of wisdom.

2. Wisdom is a divine gift

Some people want fame, some want riches, some want power and strength, but too few people seek wisdom. It’s a gift given by God to those who seek it. “If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you” (James 1:5). God granted wisdom to Solomon and he became a spiritual leader. Peace and prosperity followed. But it is something that must be continually sought. Later in life, King Solomon’s many marriages introduced pagan worship, his oppression of his people seeded unrest and his disobedience to God brought His judgment. The lesson? Seek wisdom…always

3. Humility is necessary for wisdom

The Old Testament tells us that “When pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with humility comes wisdom” (Proverbs 11:2). That really comes to life in the New Testament, when God’s son, Jesus, lowers Himself to become human, then lives a life of humility. His disciples must also give up their way of life to follow him. But the reward is friendship with Jesus and His teaching. During the Sermon on the Mount, Jesus teaches the importance of meekness, mercy and purity of heart—virtues that reflect a humble reliance on God, rather than a prideful self-sufficiency.

4. Wisdom is a daily practice

The Bible also provides practical examples of how wisdom should influence daily choices. Proverbs is full of advice about relationships, work ethic and more. There is a proverb for everything in life, thousands of years after they were first written. For example, Proverbs 15:1 states, “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.” There’s even timeless wisdom about finances, such as Proverbs 13:11: “Dishonest money dwindles away, but whoever gathers money little by little makes it grow,” which highlights the importance of ethically and patiently building wealth over time.

The Bible’s wisdom is far more than intellectual or philosophical understanding—it is deeply spiritual, practical and transformative. It’s God challenging us to continually seek and apply His wisdom, ensuring our lives are aligned with His divine will. Through scripture and prayer, we can grow in wisdom and glorify God through our decisions and actions.

 

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